Assimilation

Sirman Celâyir, Miami Beach, July 4, 1997

Contents (pages as per Wp51 version)

Page as of Aug. 10, 1998

Preface. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11
Author's Note, Linguistics . . . . . . 13
Anatomy of a Laz Clan. . . . . . . . . 15
C h r o n o l o g y. . . . . . . . . . 18

Volume 1, Assimilation . . . . . . . . 27

 1. Kismet . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29
    Religion of America. . . . . . . . 38
    Freedom versus Structure . . . . . 41
    Love, Marriage, Family . . . . . . 44
    Individualistic Immigrants . . . . 52
    Golden Years . . . . . . . . . . . 56

2. Alienation. . . . . . . . . . . . . 63
   Tuzla, Istanbul . . . . . . . . . . 65
   Mercan YuvasI . . . . . . . . . . . 71
   America, First Impression . . . . . 72
   See how wonderful privacy feels . . 74
   Germany . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 76
   Acclimation v. Assimilation . . . . 78
   Isolation . . . . . . . . . . . . . 81
   Foreign Policy. . . . . . . . . . . 85
        Armenians. . . . . . . . . . . 88
        Human Rights . . . . . . . . . 91
        American Image . . . . . . . . 94
        Lufthansa Flight to Istanbul . 97
   Kismet and Us . . . . . . . . . . . 98

3. Acclimation . . . . . . . . . . . .100
    Weston, WV. . .. . . . . . . . . .102
          The English Language . . . .105
          Temperamental Assimilation .110
    West Virginia University . . . . .114
          Marriage,Daughter,Degrees. .120
          Second Marriage, Jobs. . . .123
    Washington . . . . . . . . . . . .130
          Adults . . . . . . . . . . .134
          Reflections. . . . . . . . .136

4. Incongruities . . . . . . . . . . .139
    The German Way . . . . . . . . . .139
    The American Way . . . . . . . . .143
          American Dream . . . . . . .146
          American Milieu. . . . . . .147
    Synthesis: Putnam,Kazin,Murray . .150
          We are Number 1. . . . . . .154

5. American TV and Movies. . . . . . .159
    Network TV . . . . . . . . . . . .159
          The First Amendment. . . . .163
          Public Education . . . . . .167
    Movies . . . . . . . . . . . . . .168

6. Making Sense of the System. . . . .173
    Checks and Balances. . . . . . . .174
    Filtering Candidates . . . . . . .176
          Imperfections. . . . . . . .179
    Issues . . . . . . . . . . . . . .181
          Synthesis: Abortion. . . . .183
          Family Values. . . . . . . .185
          Statutory Rape . . . . . . .186
          Guns . . . . . . . . . . . .191
    Experts and Pundits. . . . . . . .192
          Expertise or Politics? . . .192
          News Shows . . . . . . . . .192
          Expertise versus Bias. . . .192
          Polls. . . . . . . . . . . .193
          Dubious Expertise. . . . . .194
          Off-Target Predictions . . .194
          Incompetence . . . . . . . .194
          George F. Will . . . . . . .195
          My Reasons . . . . . . . . .197

7. Second Advent . . . . . . . . . . .198
    Employment, Land of Opportunity. .199
          Cultural Productivity. . . .200
    Saudis . . . . . . . . . . . . . .203
          Expatriates. . . . . . . . .210
          IQ v. (Saudi) Cleverness . .212
          Foreign Students . . . . . .215
          CIA Experience . . . . . . .218
    Mary, SRI, San Francisco, Semra. .221
    La Jolla, California . . . . . . .224
          Vigilantes . . . . . . . . .225
          Belinda. . . . . . . . . . .226
          American Neighbors . . . . .230
    Marina del Rey, Woodbury Univ. . .232
    La Jolla, UCLA, UCSD, SDSU . . . .235

8. Deja vu . . . . . . . . . . . . . .240
    Morgantown, Belinda. . . . . . . .244
          Tushi. . . . . . . . . . . .245
    Washington . . . . . . . . . . . .250
          Religion in Turkey . . . . .253
    Endings, Belinda . . . . . . . . .257
    My Christian Delight . . . . . . .259
          Endings, Sharon. . . . . . .272
    Destiny. . . . . . . . . . . . . .273

9. Epilogue. . . . . . . . . . . . . .276

Volume 2, Our History . . . . . . . . 291

Volume 3, Love and Impurities . . . . 503

A p p e n d i c e s . . . . . . . . . 603

L a s t P a g e . . . . . . . . . . . 675  

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